30 May 2019

Let It Go, Girl! 3 Moments In Life You Need To Stop Stressing About

Sometimes, it can feel like being positive is a difficult mindset to achieve. There are so many stressful situations around, that it all becomes too much. And as stress and anxiety are two of the major issues that we can ALL suffer from in life, a sense of perspective can be invaluable! It's about identifying the big things in life that force us to stress out and start accepting them. Here are a few of them...

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Getting Older
Whether it's hair loss or getting that first gray hair we can work hard at fighting against the tide. But this is where received wisdom like age is but a number can be useful. Getting older means that we can certainly find ways to disguise the signs, but it's a fact of life that we're not going to live forever. Why should we stress out about getting one year older, or hitting those milestones when life can get better. The older we get, the wiser we become, and if we are focused on the superficial things, like wrinkles, are we going to miss out on a lot of the great things associated with getting older?

“Grass Is Greener” Syndrome
Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans. As this statement becomes truer as we age, we can realize we spend a lot of time worrying about the next step rather than being present where we are. That whole idea of the grass being greener on the other side can take a lot of effort in our mental reserves. If we are constantly looking for the next thing, we'll never be truly present and appreciate what we have right now.  Of course, we should always be looking for opportunities to grow but obsessing about what you haven’t achieved can be so very counterproductive.

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Things Beyond Your Control
Control is one of those interesting words, because we feel that we can stress out about the things that are beyond our reach. It's that fear of the unknown, but if there are things in life that will cause us to continually chew over in our minds, this is wasted energy. What's more, if it wasn't worth worrying about in the first place, this can seem like an absolute waste of time. There are things in life that we cannot control, but it comes to a point where we can have our input, whether this is the fact that we're waiting for something to happen or some sort of results, it's definitely easier said than done to not worry about it. But we need to have better coping mechanisms. This is the key. So many people have to wait for end results, but when the outcome happens, it always makes the stress endured during the waiting process a waste of time. Finding coping mechanisms it's something we can all benefit from.

As we get older, we can realize that stress is one of those things that will impact our ability to live life properly. But hindsight is a wonderful thing, and it's living our lives that makes us gain a sense of perspective as to what is stressful and what isn't. A lot of this is to do with our comfort zone, which is something we can learn to expand. But in the meantime, if you look at these three aspects and tell yourself that you've got to stop stressing, it may make an impact on so much.



Outfit Details:  DRESS - Torrid,  DUSTER - Ross,  LOCATION - Downtown Hinesville GA,  PHOTOGRAPHY - ShellyCStudio

Until Next Time...

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